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A Mindful Lunch

Whole green beans in a carton.

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I just finished eating my lunch and well it was interesting, insightful, and odd to say the least. This was my first mindful meal and I thought not only would I record this for my reflection but I would share it. I also want to ask what your experience in mindfulness has been? If you have not done this maybe give it a try. Let me know how it goes. 

I sat down at my desk with my lunch like I do most days. My computer was on and typically I work while eating. Today for the smallest moment I thought I will be more spiritual about this meal and read a dharma book during my lunch. I clicked on my nook app, pulled up my current book, and proceeded to eat a fork full of green beans while reading the first sentence. That is when it hit me. Just two days ago in my FP class (a dharma / meditation class) when we broke off into discussion groups this exact topic came up. We sat there talking about being mindful and one person in my group mentioned being out to lunch and a person eating while playing games on his phone. She used this as an example of how we busy our minds. The other person in the group said she is often not mindful while eating and tends to eat while working. So as I sat with my phone in hand, book app opened, reading and eating it hit me that I should practice mindful eating. 

So I set my phone down. Move my plate in front of me. I was at this point excited that it dawned on me to do this and happy for this little growth moment. I picked up a fork full of food and take my first bite. My mind in a panick I start thinking thoughts. Great idea what do I do now. Chew chew chew. Hey I should write this day down. It might be useful. Do I do mindful house cleaning? Maybe I could start doing that as well. I could put head phones on and listen to The Joyful Path of Good Fortune. Oh wait, that is not mindful. I will just clean. Oh wait with all these thoughts I am not being mindful now. Come back. Chew chew. Panic again what am I suppose to think about. Humor comes up. Oh this is crazy. Why can’t I just sit and eat in this moment. Then I begin to think do the people in my class eat in the moment. Wow this is hard. I don’t like sitting here doing nothing. Chew Chew. Taste the green bean. Taste the water. Breathe ok I am doing it. Panic, good god how long is this lunch! Oh it has only been two minutes. TWO MINUTES!!! No wonder Monks are typically skinny, they must hate meal times. This is horrible. I have tasted the food now what do I do. I cannot not just sit here  re tasting. Is that a stereo type saying Monks are typically skinny? Is that politically correct? Would it be considered insulting? Oh there I go again thinking. Chew Chew. Oh this really is horrible. I started looking at things. I am then reading the label on the water bottle. Errr. Chew Chew. Taste the green bean. Maybe I need something more interesting than green beans. Maybe dessert or coffee instead of beans and water. Chew Chew. I should ………….

Then as I bring myself back to the moment and with a bit of gentle humor  I am telling myself this is crazy. I can eat in peace. I am not a … opps don’t say it that is not nice. Chew Chew. The green bean is salty and no longer hot. Just warm and juicy. String beans are juicy?! Who knew? I also noticed that the taste is really good. Thank you farmer for planting and working to bring me this. I pick up another bite and notice the plastic fork. Thank you inventor of plastic, canner, label maker, factory worker. Thank you Deann for teaching me this lesson of seeing all the hands that have had a part in feeding me. Thanks Deborah and Nicole for specifically talking about lunch so it would stick with me. Breathing, eating, grateful ! Breathing, eating, I am grateful. Of course the time ticked slow, my mind still wandered, and I had to continue to bring it back but all in all I felt good. I noticed for those brief seconds that the world moved together just so I could eat. From the plowed field, to  the desk where I was sitting, and even to the government ( I complained about daily) that employees me and the veterans who need my services. We really are one. 

It was brief but it was there I felt it. That calm peaceful second. I will not lie I was so happy to eat the last bite and know it was over. Hahaha! I think I will try this again tomorrow. I might even try tonight at dinner. Well maybe not that soon but lunch tomorrow for sure!

Peace and Flowers


Paralyzed While Active

I will give a brief mention about the background that brought me to this moment. Over the years I have told many people they should write books, blogs, articles, poetry, and basically whatever. Then I realized a couple months ago that it is me who wants to write.

I mulled this thought around for a few months. Thought of doing it secretly so the people I know would not read it. I decided against that and spoke the sentence out loud the day after I joined this site. I said very quietly to my husband that I was thinking of doing a blog. He said very little and I let it drop. The ball was rolling.

Now it is a week later. My blog is set. My introduction was posted after 3 days of worrying. I have topics listed and a million ideas spinning around my head. Tonight I write about none of them. I am lucky to be writing at all. I have a huge case of stage fright or whatever the coined term is for person who is afraid to write publicly.

Knowing this was the day to write my post I woke and immediately started cleaning. That was followed by fooling around with my nook. I read about a free Friday book and did not even bother getting it. I sat down with my Ipad next and bought a budget app. This is really funny because I don’t even budget my check book. All the while I am feeling the time ticking away and I was still bloggless. I laid down for a nap, ran an errand, took care of a minor household repair, read writing articles, went back to the budget app, Skyped with my daughter that lives in Texas, made a blog folder for the notes I will never look to, and ended it all with a flipping on of the television. Only to realize I was going to drop from technology exhaustion if I did not break away from this paralyzing activity.

What better way to share my stumbling path than to show on the very first post the stumble. No meditation was done today. Never once did I pick up a dharma book to read. I didn’t even have patience or peace for my kids. It is now midnight and time to right my day. I am going to thank you in advance for reading my first post. Kiss my kids while they sleep. Hop in bed with a book by Geshe Kesang Gyatso and fall asleep (the Dalai Lama did say this was the best form of meditation) to the words of loving kindness. Ending the day exactly how I should have started it.

Peace and Flowers